relationship – Just Me Talking https://justmetalking.com Make Your Day Wed, 12 Feb 2025 03:29:54 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://justmetalking.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/cropped-Black-Vintage-Emblem-Tree-Logo-1-32x32.png relationship – Just Me Talking https://justmetalking.com 32 32 231211893 When people walk away from you, let them go… https://justmetalking.com/when-people-walk-away-from-you-let-them-go/ Tue, 29 Oct 2024 03:51:38 +0000 https://justmetalking.com/?p=96376 Julia Roberts once said:

“When people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you, and it doesn’t mean they are bad people. It just means that their part in your story is over.”

These words remind us of a truth we often forget—that not everyone who enters our lives is meant to stay forever.

People come into our lives for different reasons, teaching us lessons, sharing experiences, or walking with us through certain seasons. But when they leave, it’s important to recognize that their role in our journey has been fulfilled, and our paths must now diverge.

Holding on to those who are meant to leave only delays your growth and keeps you from moving into the fullness of your own destiny. It’s not about rejecting or blaming the person who leaves, but rather understanding that your story continues beyond their chapter.

Sometimes, their exit makes room for new opportunities, deeper connections, and the discovery of new aspects of yourself. Letting go is not always easy, but it is essential to step into the next stage of your life.

This doesn’t diminish the importance of the relationship you once shared. Every encounter holds value, shaping who you are and helping you grow. But when someone walks away, it’s a sign that your journey no longer aligns. Their departure doesn’t make them a villain in your life story, just someone whose role has come to its natural end.

When you free yourself from the weight of those who have left, you create space for people who are meant to stay and enrich your life in meaningful ways.

Letting go isn’t an act of giving up; it’s an act of acceptance—embracing the flow of life, understanding that not everyone is meant to accompany you to every destination.

Remember, your destiny is your own. No one can take it away, and no one else can walk the path that’s laid out for you. So, when someone walks away, trust that it’s for your highest good. They were part of your story, but now the rest is for you to write, and it holds even greater promise.

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This Photo Was Taken 24 Hours After I Gave Birth to My Second Baby Boy… https://justmetalking.com/this-photo-was-taken-24-hours-after-i-gave-birth-to-my-second-baby-boy/ Fri, 11 Oct 2024 15:11:05 +0000 https://justmetalking.com/?p=94183 This Photo Was Taken 24 Hours After I Gave Birth to My Second Baby Boy, Waylon.

In a heartfelt post shared by Madison Holley, a touching family moment captured just 24 hours after the birth of her second son, Waylon, has resonated with many. The photo shows Madison with her ex-partner on one side, holding hands with their three-year-old son, Cade, while her fiancé stands on the other side, holding Waylon’s tiny hand.

Madison’s message is powerful: just because a relationship doesn’t work out between two parents doesn’t mean the bond with their child should suffer. She emphasizes that every child deserves love and support from both a mother and a father figure, and in Cade’s case, he gains even more love from his extended family.

Her story serves as an important reminder about the significance of co-parenting. Madison writes, “Be civil and co-parent. If you made the child together, it’s both your job to raise the child.”

This situation highlights a valuable life lesson: it’s possible to create a nurturing environment for children, even when romantic relationships dissolve. Instead of harboring resentment, focusing on collaboration for the sake of the children can enrich their lives. Cade, with two father figures and a loving mother, has an expanded support system that fosters love and security.

Madison’s experience is a testament to the idea that families can take many forms, and that compassion and cooperation can lead to healthier, happier outcomes for children. It encourages us to prioritize the well-being of the next generation, proving that love can come from various sources and that the best legacy we can leave for our children is a harmonious family dynamic.

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People don’t notice the things we do for them until we stop doing them. https://justmetalking.com/people-dont-notice-the-things-we-do-for-them-until-we-stop-doing-them/ https://justmetalking.com/people-dont-notice-the-things-we-do-for-them-until-we-stop-doing-them/#respond Thu, 11 Apr 2024 01:57:57 +0000 https://justmetalking.com/?p=73515 People don’t notice the things we do for them until we stop doing them.

In their shared story, she was always there for him, caring in countless small ways that he never seemed to notice. Day after day, she was the one making sure he had everything he needed, always putting his needs before her own. She was the one who remembered his preferences, his schedule, and the little things that made him smile. Yet, he seemed oblivious to her constant presence and the comfort she provided.

As time went on, she began to realize that she needed to care for herself too. So, she started to step back, focusing on her own life, her own dreams, and her own happiness. She stopped doing all the little things for him, redirecting her energy towards her own growth and well-being.

It was then, in the silence of her absence, that he finally noticed the gap where her care used to be. He started to miss the morning coffee she used to make just the way he liked it, the way she would listen to his stories at the end of the day, and how she always seemed to have time for him. He realized that she had left, not in anger or haste, but quietly, like the last star fading at dawn.

The truth hit him hard: People don’t notice the things we do for them until we stop doing them. We take for granted the love and care we receive, not understanding its value until it’s withdrawn. He learned that lesson too late, as he found himself missing the woman who had been his unnoticed foundation, now strong and shining on her own.

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The Three Zodiac Signs Who Will Break Your Heart https://justmetalking.com/the-three-zodiac-signs-who-will-break-your-heart/ Mon, 22 Jan 2024 03:07:55 +0000 https://alternatech.net/?p=65903 The Three Zodiac Signs Who Will Break Your Heart

1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Aries individuals are known for their passion and enthusiasm, which can be incredibly attractive. However, their impulsive nature and desire for independence may lead them to prioritize their own needs and desires over the relationship. This tendency to rush into things and a tendency to be confrontational can lead to misunderstandings and, ultimately, heartbreak.

2. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

Gemini is often seen as charming and sociable, making them captivating partners. However, their dual nature can create challenges in relationships. Geminis may struggle with commitment and have a tendency to become easily bored, leading to a desire for change or exploration outside the relationship. Their indecisiveness and constant need for mental stimulation can also create emotional turbulence.

3. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

Sagittarians are known for their adventurous spirit and love for freedom. While these qualities can make for exciting relationships, they may also lead to heartbreak. Sagittarius individuals value their independence and may find it challenging to settle down in a committed partnership. They might prioritize their wanderlust and desire for new experiences over the stability of a relationship.

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14 Ways To Fix A Relationship After Saying Hurtful Things https://justmetalking.com/14-ways-to-fix-a-relationship-after-saying-hurtful-things/ Thu, 18 Jan 2024 09:42:08 +0000 https://alternatech.net/?p=65746 14 Ways To Fix A Relationship After Saying Hurtful Things
1. First of all, analyze the words coming out of your mouth during a fight or even a conversation.

Did you genuinely mean what you said? If not, where did it all go wrong and what would be the right approach of expressing what’s on your mind?

2. The next step is, of course, apologizing sincerely to your partner. Make sure you clarify what exactly you feel sorry about

3. Acknowledge the fact that your partner is entitled to feel upset or even mortified after a war of words and may not accept your apology right in that moment

4. It’s absolutely important that you give them the time and space they need to process their feelings and heal from initial hurt

5. Remember, the blame game is never the right way to go about it

6. Take full responsibility for your actions and words, at least when you are trying to make amends. Don’t come up with excuses to cover up for your rudeness

7. Communicate effectively. If there’s something you wish your partner did differently, then sit with them and calmly explain why you want it handled this way and also listen to their perspective on the matter very patiently

8. Show that you are sorry, not just say it. Apologize sincerely by expressing genuine remorse to regain your partner’s love and faith in you and the relationship

9. Make it a point to yourself, and a commitment to your partner, that you will work on the issues that need to be addressed in order to check your temper

10. Do whatever it takes, from meditation to reading books on anger management to going for couple’s therapy

11. Control your own urges to say dismissive phrases like “Why are you so needy?”, “Here we go again!”, or “I am done with you”

12. The damage in the relationship is already done and the remedy is that you be extra polite, affectionate, and respectful to help your partner heal from the pain. That will come effortlessly once you sort the interpersonal problems between you two

13. Give it time; don’t rush the process

14. Lastly, go all out with the romantic gestures to make them feel special and cared for again – From date nights, to gifts and flowers, to spending quality time with each other, just like the old days when you started dating

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Every Time A Guy Calls You Babe, Here’s What It Really Means https://justmetalking.com/every-time-a-guy-calls-you-babe-heres-what-it-really-means/ Thu, 18 Jan 2024 07:10:31 +0000 https://alternatech.net/?p=65711 Every time a guy calls you honey, this is what it really means

1. He has special feelings for you

That special thing may not necessarily be love but it could be infatuation or attraction. Never take it too far as love. But if he suddenly starts calling you honey, you may have to look for other signs to know how strongly he feels for you and whether he feels like a special friend. Is it different or better than that?

2. He is really attracted to you

This is a certain physical charm. He just enjoys being around you and finds you extremely attractive. Surely he is giving you more attention than ever. He may have just used it by accident but he is attracted to you

3. He is flirting with you

Babe is often used for flirting due to the fact that most women blush when called honey. He may even like you to some degree but he’s too shy or it’s too early to express these feelings.

4. He may be gauging your interest

If you act positive when called honey, it’s a sign you like him too. Also, maybe he’s trying to tell you to think about it. And when he keeps repeating, baby, you’ll start showing interest too

5. He wants to make you feel special

He wants you to know how special you are to him. He might be using it to show how much he admires you.

6. He is trying to attract attention

Maybe he’s using the baby for attention. You will stop and listen the moment he calls you honey. Additionally, he may also call you honey in a group, just to distract you and draw your attention towards him.

7. He’s just trying to be a cool guy

Maybe he’s just trying to be a cool guy. He doesn’t even know that he’s probably calling you honey, he’s just using words that he thinks will make him look cool.

9. He feels possessive about you

Suddenly he starts to feel possessive about you. And calling you honey makes him feel secure and safe in your relationship.

10. He’s trying to impress or make someone feel jealous

Maybe he likes someone else and calls you honey in front of the other woman just to make her feel jealous.

11. He’s just teasing you

He may not mean anything but you react to that word so he always uses it to tease you. He’s just a good friend and like friends, he teases you.

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11 Signs That You Have Officially Found Your Forever Person https://justmetalking.com/11-signs-that-you-have-officially-found-your-forever-person/ Tue, 16 Jan 2024 06:55:24 +0000 https://alternatech.net/?p=65493 11 Signs That You Have Officially Found Your Forever Person

If many of these signs apply to you and your partner, then rejoice, you’re lucky to have found your forever person.

1. They always care about your needs and feelings.

They always make sure that your needs and feelings are kept in mind. They never act selfishly around you. They never do or say anything without first thinking about how it might affect you. They always want you to feel fulfilled and satisfied.

2. They make you feel accepted for who you are.

They do whatever they can to make you feel accepted for who you are. They will never make you feel judged or criticized. They will never do or say anything that makes you feel like you are not enough for them.

3. They make you feel safe and secure.

They always contribute to ensuring your safety and security. They will do whatever it takes to ensure that you never have to feel insecure or afraid when in a relationship with them. They will want to address all of your fears and reservations.

4. They are open to you.

They allow themselves to be as open and dangerous as possible with you. They really want you to know that they wouldn’t want to hide anything from you. They won’t want to make you feel like you don’t have access to their lives. Nothing is off limits for you.

5. They support you in pursuing your goals and dreams.

They truly value supporting you in pursuing your goals and dreams. They always try their best to never make you choose between pursuing your dreams and staying in a relationship with them. They want to make you feel like you never have to compromise one or the other.

6. They talk about the future with you.

They show a willingness to talk about the future with you. They want to let you know that they don’t just live in the present. They are not looking for temporary relationships or short-term relationships. They really want a real future with you and they want to include you in the planning process.

7. They really make spending time with you a priority

They want you to know how important you are and how important this relationship is to them. They won’t want you to feel like you have to come second to anyone or anyone else. You are not just another option. You are a real priority.

8. They try their best to learn as much as they can about you.

They never stop trying to learn more about you. They always try their best to explore your personality and thoughts about life. They know there’s always something new to learn about you – and they never stop trying to do it.

9. They inspire you to be the best possible version of yourself.

They always push you to be the best possible version of yourself. Somehow, being with them and in a relationship just inspires you to want to be a better person. You’re even more motivated to stay on your best behavior when you’re together.

10. They are your source of strength when you are weak.

Whenever you feel like life is becoming too much to bear, you know that you can always count on them to be there for you. They really help push you wherever you need to go no matter how harsh or difficult life gets.

11. They try to make you laugh as much as possible.

They always try to prioritize your happiness above most other things. They really take it upon themselves to make you smile and laugh as much as possible.

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12 Important Relationship Rules For Couples To Share https://justmetalking.com/12-important-relationship-rules-for-couples-to-share/ Thu, 04 Jan 2024 09:02:37 +0000 https://alternatech.net/?p=64905 Are you in a relationship and want to make sure it lasts? Or, do you just want to know what you can do to create a healthy and long-lasting relationship? In this blog post, we will go over 12 important relationship rules that you should follow.

12 Important Relationship Rules For Couples To Share

12 Important Relationship Rules For Couples To Share
12 Important Relationship Rules For Couples To Share

1. Stop Blaming, Start Accepting

We can’t grow together if we keep blaming each other. Blame only leads to more blame; it’s a never-ending vicious cycle. Let’s accept our faults without blaming one another. This isn’t a competition. It’s a bonding that is formed by two souls

“Love is about two people supporting and respecting one another, not a competition of mistakes and faults.”

2. Tell The Truth, Period.

I know this is an old saying, but it’s more relevant today than ever. Lying only harms people, lives, and relationships. One lie will always lead to another lie, which will inevitably end with you finding yourself trapped in a web of lies. That’s a lot of negative energy that person will have to carry.

Tell the truth, even if the consequences are not in your favor. Believe me, a relationship based on lies has no value in achieving happiness.

3. Cherished Emotions Last Forever

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A happy couple knows the actual value of emotions and feelings. When two human beings share a strong emotional bond, they face life’s hardships head-on, knowing they have a constant support system. Those who value emotions over the physical and material aspects of life are the happiest.

4. End Fights Peacefully, Without Resentment

When two people are together, they will definitely have differences. It’s natural to occasionally argue with your partner; that’s how you learn to grow together. A healthy argument will stop before any lasting emotional damage is caused. Be careful with your words when arguing; Words can sometimes hurt more than actions.

5. Achieve Personal Goals, Together

Personal goals are very important and should never be forgotten or overlooked because of your partner. If you start to stray from your goals, you will start to develop resentment towards your partner. A happy couple makes sure they don’t forget each other’s personal goals and helps them achieve them!

6. Never Forget the Importance of Self

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A happy couple values ​​their own importance. When two people truly love each other, they accept and love each other for who they are, not who they could become. True love will not change you; it will uplift you. It will make you love everything about yourself, not make you hide your face.

7. Be Each Other’s Biggest Critics, Privately

We have vowed to learn from one another, help each other grow, and make sure we don’t stumble on our way. This includes being positive critics of one another. You will learn so many things about yourself through your partner’s eyes, be open to learning.

8. Celebrate Each Other, Regularly

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Find occasions, dates, even thoughts to celebrate. Celebrate your romance, the bond you share that no one else can replicate. Be proud of your relationship; You worked hard on it. Keep important dates, remember them and celebrate them. Let’s continue to cheer for each other.

9. Learn Together, Everyday

A healthy couple learns from each other, without ego or prejudice. The day you think you know everything is the day you stop growing. Life is a constant learning process and a couple that learns together will grow together. Be proud of each other’s skills, support each other’s failures.

10. Keep Walking Forward, Hand in Hand

The past should stay in the past. You can learn from it, but you can’t let it change your present. Everyone has a history; no one has a clean slate in life. It wouldn’t be fair to yourself or your partner if you cling to the past, no matter how many regrets you may carry. Talk to your partner about your feelings, about inner turmoil. Be transparent about your fears with each other. Let’s move forward together.

11. Let Go of Unrealistic Expectations

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Learn to live in each other’s shoes. A happy relationship does not have any unrealistic expectations. A happy couple knows each other’s limitations and will never make one another feel bad over them. Realistic expectations, on the other hand, lead to happiness and joy.

12. Never Let The Spark Go Out, Keep The Romance Alive

A relationship without romance is only toxic. Couples who don’t have a level of love that is healthy begin to distance themselves from each other. Couples who are happy know the importance of romance and are committed to keeping the romance alive. No matter what the status of your relationship, whether married, have children, or have been together for a long time and so on, your love affair should be treasured and revered.

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