{"id":92297,"date":"2024-10-02T16:01:19","date_gmt":"2024-10-02T09:01:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/justmetalking.com\/?p=92297"},"modified":"2024-10-02T16:01:19","modified_gmt":"2024-10-02T09:01:19","slug":"i-took-my-fiance-to-visit-my-parents-he-ran-out-screaming-i-cant-believe-it-in-the-middle-of-the-night","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/justmetalking.com\/i-took-my-fiance-to-visit-my-parents-he-ran-out-screaming-i-cant-believe-it-in-the-middle-of-the-night\/","title":{"rendered":"I Took My Fianc\u00e9 to Visit My Parents \u2014 He Ran Out Screaming \u2018I Can\u2019t Believe It!\u2019 in the Middle of the Night\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"
I\u2019ve been with my fianc\u00e9 for six years, and we were supposed to get married next month. But during a visit to my parents, something unexpected came to light that shook our relationship to its core.\n
We had gone to visit my parents, staying in my childhood room for a sense of nostalgia before the wedding. My fianc\u00e9, Adam, wanted to stay at a hotel, but I thought it would be fun to spend time at my old home one last time before becoming a married woman.\n
\u201cI don\u2019t see how staying at your parents\u2019 house is going to change anything,\u201d Adam said while we packed for the trip.\n
\u201cBecause it\u2019s sentimental. It\u2019s my last time under their roof before I\u2019m officially married,\u201d I replied with a smile.\n
\u201cIf it gets uncomfortable, I\u2019m checking into a hotel,\u201d he said casually.\n
I had no idea how prophetic that would be.\n
When we arrived, everyone was thrilled to see us. My mom and aunt had prepared an elaborate meal, and the atmosphere was warm and welcoming. Dinner went smoothly, and Adam seemed to enjoy the attention from my extended family.\n
\u201cThis is new for me,\u201d he said while helping with the dishes. \u201cI\u2019m not used to being the center of attention.\u201d\n
\u201cIt\u2019s a good thing,\u201d I said, handing him a plate. \u201cYou\u2019re supposed to feel welcome.\u201d\n
That night, as we settled in, I noticed Adam tossing and turning. \u201cWhat\u2019s wrong?\u201d I asked, turning toward him.\n
\u201cI can\u2019t sleep,\u201d he muttered. \u201cThis bed is too lumpy, and I\u2019m not used to sleeping in strange beds.\u201d\n
\u201cTake a walk outside,\u201d I suggested sleepily. \u201cThe fresh air might help.\u201d\n
\u201cFine,\u201d he grumbled, getting up and leaving the room.\n
I was just drifting off again when I heard Adam\u2019s scream echo through the house. I bolted upright, heart racing, wondering if we were in danger. Before I could even react, Adam stormed back into the room, his face pale with anger.\n
\u201cWhat happened?\u201d I asked, my voice shaking.\n
\u201cSasha, your mom\u2014she\u2019s in the foyer, kissing another man!\u201d Adam shouted, his face contorted with shock and disbelief.\n
My heart sank. I had hoped this wouldn\u2019t happen during our visit. I had always dreaded the moment when my parents\u2019 unconventional marriage would come to light. I tried to calm Adam down, but he was too furious to listen.\n
\u201cCall your dad! Tell him your mom is cheating right here in the house!\u201d Adam demanded.\n
It seemed logical for him to think that confronting my dad would fix everything. But he didn\u2019t know the full story.\n
Before I could explain, my mom walked in, still adjusting her clothes. \u201cI can explain,\u201d she began, but Adam cut her off.\n
\u201cExplain what? You\u2019re cheating on your husband!\u201d\n
\u201cIt\u2019s not cheating, sweetheart,\u201d she said calmly. \u201cSasha knows about this, and she can explain it to you. Our marriage is different\u2014very different.\u201d\n
Adam turned to me, eyes wide. \u201cYou knew? And you didn\u2019t tell me?\u201d\n
I reached out to him, but he pulled away. \u201cI didn\u2019t know how to bring it up,\u201d I said. \u201cIt\u2019s not something I wanted to hide, but it wasn\u2019t my secret to share.\u201d\n
\u201cYou should have told me!\u201d he snapped. \u201cHow can I trust you now? Is this what you wanted to introduce me to? This lifestyle?\u201d\n
I was overwhelmed. Adam\u2019s outburst took me back to my own discovery when I was 16. I had planned a sleepover with friends at my house, excited to host. But that night, I walked in on my parents with another couple. My mom was holding another man\u2019s hand, and my dad was kissing another woman. They had no choice but to explain their open marriage to me then. I had struggled to understand it, and now Adam was going through the same shock.\n
\u201cNo, Adam, it\u2019s nothing like that,\u201d I insisted. \u201cI\u2019m committed to you. I don\u2019t want their lifestyle.\u201d\n
But Adam wasn\u2019t hearing me. He was too triggered by memories of his own mother\u2019s infidelity, which had led to his parents\u2019 divorce. \u201cThis is too much, Sasha. Everything feels like a red flag.\u201d\n
He packed his things and left for a hotel, saying he needed time to reevaluate our engagement. I spent the night crying, the weight of my parents\u2019 choices crushing my own relationship.\n
The next morning, my mom tried to comfort me. \u201cGo talk to him, honey,\u201d she said, handing me a cup of coffee.\n
I went to the hotel to see Adam. We barely spoke, the tension thick between us. I suggested we stay at my grandmother\u2019s house for the rest of the visit, away from my parents, so we could talk.\n
\u201cYeah, that\u2019s fine,\u201d he said. \u201cThis hotel is too cold anyway.\u201d\n
But the real coldness was between us. As we packed, I told him, \u201cI\u2019ve never kept secrets from you intentionally. I didn\u2019t know how to bring this up because I barely understand it myself.\u201d\n
Adam sighed, rubbing his temples. \u201cI get it. But it feels too close to home. I need time to process this.\u201d\n
We spent the rest of the week at my grandmother\u2019s house, trying to salvage the family visit. My parents apologized to Adam, but it didn\u2019t change the underlying issue\u2014it wasn\u2019t about them; it was about how their lifestyle had triggered something deep in Adam.\n
On the drive home, we agreed to stay together and see where life took us. \u201cI think we should go to therapy,\u201d I suggested, handing him a drink.\n
\u201cThat sounds like a good idea,\u201d he replied. \u201cI need to work through my own trauma before I can fully accept your parents.\u201d\n
Now, Adam and I are working through everything. We\u2019re talking more openly\u2014about his fears, my shame, and our future. We know healing will take time, but we\u2019re committed to each other.\n
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